It doesn't matter what we think about homosexuals and lesbians. We will be judged by what God says about this subject in the Bible.
II Corinthians 5
9 Wherefore we labour, that, whether present or absent, we may be accepted of Him.
10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.
11 Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men;
So what does God say in the Bible concerning homosexuals & lesbians?
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Romans 1
19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them.
20 For the invisible things of Him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
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And when the homosexual or lesbian says, "He was just born that way."
Jesus says:
Mark 10
6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
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If God reveals HIMSELF to a homosexual or a lesbian, that person will then repent and conform to the truth of the Bible and will turn from that former sin and walk in a new way, being born again.
II Corinthians 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
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